::..A man with value..::
greetings.i just read one of my friend's blog.his latest post brings me to write this one.it touches me in the sense of what ppl have been through in their life and how they dealt with it.for me, it was another great experience to be shared.i tried to look into life and learn how to share it with others.after reading his post,i can't help myself but leaving a few words here.hope it's fine with him.nothing personal.i thought that maybe we can share a few things here n there.
often,we tend to see what stands in fronts of us.we tried hard to do everything that we believe we could do.by that moment, no matter what stands in the way, we will somehow bravely, confidently pass through it heading towards our goal.and when we succeed in doing those things, happiness will come with great satisfaction.
but sometimes we do fail.fail to achieve whatever we dream for.dream?yes, dream.all men dream but not equally.those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes to make it possible.fail?it is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.after all, failure teaches success.it's just the matter of what and how we learn from our failures.this maybe seem too cliche to all of you, you know, being told about what is the meaning of success and failures.=)but i'd love to be the one to remind us again.it's ok,isn't it?
lets us be real.this is no utopia nor heaven. problems come and go.face them, it will boost your self-confident.deal with them, it will make you a wiser man.the ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.guyz, success is very subjective.it depends on how we view it.its worthless to try so hard to success and when you fail, you blame it on yourself.you said you can’t handle problems.you deny your fate.you keep on apologizing to everybody for making them disappointed.true, you have failed.so what?is it the end of your life?no.it’s not,pal.why not starting all over again.this time, instead of trying to be a man with success, try to be a man with value.i think it’s better,isn’t it?
2 Comments:
Some people are perfectionist. They see the world as black and white.
The fact of the matter is, out of those black and white dots, gray matters disperse in the background. Unless we tolerate, or perhaps accept the ambiguity, we'll never be happy.
In fact, who are we to judge anyway?
That's a part of the problem of our people today, they often value us out of what we went through, of what we did - not out of what we become of it.
:)
hm, maybe not perfectionist, short-sighted is the better word.
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